Lie in Marriage

September 26, 2002 - 0:0
Telling a lie at the beginning stage of making a family -- marriage -- strongly threats a successful life and the continuation of it will destroy the family's structure.

Numerous youngsters feel that reaching their goals is possible through lying. They believe that their favorite spouse can be found by deceiving, but they are not aware of the fact that tricking shakes the family's root and make the couple distrust each other.

Disappointment and lack of trust in matrimony life are the first negative reflections deceiving in marriage brings about, which becomes clear throughout life, and then leads to a divorce, with the innocent children as the victims.

In so many societies, we still have charlatans who lie, in order to reach their ominous goals. By getting married with pure and sinless girls, they bring great disasters to the society.

They commit crime, theft and violations in order to reach their goals, which lead to other social problems.

So, specialists in social affairs give advice to the families to pay more attention to their children's friends and marriage. Searching is obligatory after wooing. They should open their eyes and then make their decision on this important issue.

The research performed on 400 American unsuccessful couples done by several American psychologists and university teachers showed that 40 percent of them were unsuccessful in marriage due to lies.

According to the research, the number of impostor men is double against the women.

The female victims will have to deal with mental and emotional problems, and almost become depressed in later stages.

These women believed that their desired ideals were destroyed in a jiffy and their beloved person was nothing but a charlatan. Then separation and getting divorce was the only solution.

Dr. Teresi, an American socialist said that the best way of getting rid of these kinds of problems is informing people by using press, TV and radio programs.

He mentioned guiding youth as the basic duties of filmmakers and the directors.

According to him, the governments are the providers of suitable living conditions for youth, preventing them from being deceived.